February 14, 2010 § Leave a comment
translated : bekwoh
source : native language of kelantanese
so the first & second events finally done.
the akad nikah, friday 12th – checked
the bersanding at bride’s, sunday 14th – checked
next, the reception at groom’s, saturday 20th.
i found that wedding is really a bekwoh for many. the checklist (supposedly), the preparations, the commitments, and the most importantly the bud.get
as many made believe that a bekwoh shud be real grande, as it is once-in-a-lifetime love story (errk?) yet many almost overlook the true meaning of marriage. shud we follow the sunnah, it never takes our life so difficult. hence the bekwoh will pass thru easy. head-pounding less.
anyway. tis is not mine that i’m talking about. so just let them be.